出现“背叛”这种事以后，有许多人会将错误进行到底，绝不回头；而另一些人会回头寻求对方的原谅，希望回到从前。
After the occurrence of "betrayal", many people will carry out their mistakes to the end and never look back; Others will look back for forgiveness and hope to go back to the past.
孤独，是给自己的洗涤。这些繁杂的小事，那些久久无法释怀的事情，总是萦绕在自己的心头。
Loneliness is washing for yourself. These complicated little things, those things that can be released for a long time, always linger in my mind.
很多人的爱情，都是在玻璃渣中找糖吃，拼命地爱着，努力成为彼此心中的那样一个人。
Many peoples love is to find sugar in the glass residue, love desperately, and strive to become such a person in each others hearts.
而且这种无止境的拷问，必将带来背叛者的极大羞耻和痛苦。
Moreover, this endless torture will bring great shame and pain to the Betrayer.
但是，事实真的能如愿以偿吗？还没有。在愤怒情绪高涨的时候，大多数人会不顾一切，任由情绪主宰他们的言行。
But can the truth really come true? Not yet. When anger is high, most people will be desperate and let their emotions dominate their words and deeds.
车窗外人来人往，每个人都显得那么忙碌，却很少有人能享受这种匆忙。
People come and go outside the window. Everyone seems so busy, but few people can enjoy this rush.
好好利用中年那段寂寞的时光，多读书，多出去走一走，原谅自己曾经犯过的错误，包容那些曾与你有过矛盾的人，与周围的一切和解。
Make good use of the lonely time in middle age, read more, go out more, forgive your mistakes, tolerate those who have had contradictions with you, and reconcile with everything around you.
不止一次，学姐对我说过，女人要有脾气，才能真正掌握自己的婚姻，做男人的左膀右臂。
More than once, my sister told me that women should have a temper in order to really control their marriage and be the right arm of men.
