一开始，对方会对你的爱和付出表示非常感激。但是随着时间的流逝，他会习惯于你的这种表现，他的内心也不再充满感激。
At the beginning, the other person will be very grateful for your love and dedication. But as time goes by, he will get used to your performance, and his heart will no longer be grateful.
这是个好办法，转移注意力。您可以将注意力集中在工作、交友、兴趣爱好上，并使自己忙碌起来。
This is a good way to divert attention. You can focus on your work, making friends, interests and hobbies, and keep yourself busy.
很显然，他很乐意送你这份礼物，不管它是贵还是便宜，都代表着他的心。
Obviously, he is happy to give you this gift. Whether it is expensive or cheap, it represents his heart.
那本是无可厚非的事，可你要明白，经常刻意的炫耀，假意谦逊，常常在无意间伤害对方。
Thats understandable, but you should understand that you often deliberately show off, pretend to be modest, and often hurt each other unintentionally.
假如你想让男人为你花更多的钱，那就得在工作日的一小笔开销上主动去承担。
If you want men to spend more money for you, you have to take the initiative to bear a small amount of expenses on the working day.
而且，一个不能给你未来、却一直把你吊起来的人，真的没有那么爱你，也不值得你付出。说实在的，你不过是个备胎。
Moreover, a person who can give you the future, but has been hanging you up, really doesn love you so much, and its not worth your pay. To be honest, you e just a spare tire.
在爱情中，追爱固然重要，但好好爱自己更为重要。即使自己都不爱自己，那又怎么能渴望别人来爱你呢？
In love, chasing love is important, but loving yourself is more important. Even if you don love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?
