一、从现在开始，不沉溺幻想，不庸人自扰，踏实工作，好好生活，做一个接近幸福的人。后来才发现，并不是所有的喜欢都会有结果，终究要明白，遇见就已经很难得。你让我觉得，我们的关系不止这样，又只能这样。From now on, don"t indulge in fantasy, don"t bother others, work steadfastly, live a good life and be a person close to happiness. Later found that not all likes will have results, after all, to understand that it is very rare to meet.
You make me feel that our relationship is not only like this, but also can only be like this.
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二、真正的友谊是一种缓慢生长的植物，必须经历并顶得住逆境的冲击，才无愧友谊这个称号。颗心要伤多少次，才会被迫选择放弃；一个人要傻等多少回，才知自己只是多余。如今冰封的心，曾经是最热烈；如今无情的人，曾经是最深情。True friendship is a plant that grows slowly and must withstand the impact of adversity in order to deserve the title of friendship.
How many times must a heart be hurt before it is forced to give up; how many times must a person be foolish to know that he is just superfluous. Nowadays, the ice-bound heart used to be the warmest; nowadays, ruthless people used to be the most affectionate.
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三、真正见过世面的女人，追求的是生活的素与、平淡与真实。永远别去猜别人对你是真心还是假意。只要在一起的时候，不觉得辛苦就好。Women who have really seen the world pursue the simplicity, simplicity, plainness and truth of life. Never guess whether someone is sincere or false to you. As long as we are together, we don"t feel hard.
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四、现在回过头仔细想来，你给了我爱，也给了我无尽的感动，让我在无数个黑夜中坚持了下去。在混沌的日子里，你不断的鼓励我，让我对生活燃起了希望和光明。Now look back and think carefully, you gave me love, but also gave me endless touches, let me persist in countless nights. In the chaotic days, you continue to encourage me, let me light up hope and brightness for life.
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五、有些话，能不说就不说。有些伤，能不揭就不揭。有些事，可以看透，但不要说破。有些人，可以看穿，但不要戳穿。什么叫过程才是最重要的呀，这只不过是失败者的借口而已。Some words can be said without saying them. Some injuries can not be uncovered unless they are uncovered. Some things can be seen through, but don"t break them. Some people can see through it, but don"t puncture it. What is process? It"s just an excuse for losers.
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六、真的好想你，原来你一直都是我不变的等待，原来你一直都是最爱我的人，原来我的心一直都是爱着你。真的好想你，我会第一时间去找你，给你一个意外的惊喜。Really miss you, originally you have always been my constant waiting, originally you have always been my favorite person, originally my heart has always been in love with you. Really miss you, I will find you the first time, give you an unexpected surprise.
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七、一个人的生命是应该这样度过的 ：当他回首往事的时候 ，他不会因虚度年华而悔恨 也不会因碌碌无为而羞耻。其实对你真正好的人，你一辈子，也不会遇到几个。A person"s life should be spent like this: when he looks back on the past, he will not regret for idling away his time, nor will he be ashamed for doing nothing. In fact, you really good people, you will not meet a few in your life.
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八、在这世上，没有最好的男人，只有最亲的男人。没有最美的女人，只有最爱的女人。两个人若是感情深厚，那么在对方眼里，就是最好最美的。人总有缺点，能视而不见或者忍耐着，只是因为有感情。In this world, there is no best man, only the closest man. There is no most beautiful woman, only the most loved one. If two people have deep feelings, then in the eyes of each other, they are the best and most beautiful. People always have shortcomings.
They can turn a blind eye to them or endure them, just because they have feelings.
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九、人生的太多的痛苦和不幸，都是因为想要活成别人那样，而不是成为自己这样。羡慕别人的代价，常常就是失去自己。切莫交浅言深。有些热闹，终究会散去。不是内心认可的人，就不必说太多。Too much pain and misfortune in life is due to the desire to live like others, not to be like yourself. The price of envying others is often to lose oneself. Don"t talk too much. Some of the excitement will eventually dissipate. You don"t have to say too much if you"re not a person who is endorsed by your heart.
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十、生活总会有无尽的麻烦，请不要无奈，因为路还在，阳光还在，希望还在。失去的，留着回忆；想要得到，需要努力。生活不相信眼泪，只需要坚强，跌倒了要学着自己站起来。生活不需要依赖，只需要自立自强，坚持的梦想也难也要奋斗冲刺到终点。There will always be endless troubles in life, please don"t be helpless, because the road is still there, sunshine is still there, hope is still there. Lost, keep memories; want to get, need to work hard. Life does not believe in tears, just need to be strong, fall to learn to stand up.
Life needs no dependence, just self-reliance and self-reliance, and it is difficult to persist in the dream and struggle to the end.
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十一、曾有人对我说：“泼在你身上的冷水，你应该烧开了泼回去。”但我更愿意去做像石灰一样的人，别人越泼我冷水，我的人生越沸腾！Someone once said to me, "The cold water splashed on you should be boiled and splashed back." But I prefer to be a lime-like person. The more people pour cold water on me, the more boiling my life is!
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十二、不要轻易放弃一个每天都会想念的人。因为这样的人，一辈子也不会遇到几个。即便在一起要吃很多苦头，咬咬牙也就过去了。生活的苦，会随光阴淡去。但失去挚爱的疼痛，时间也无法洗涤。多年后仍能让你心痛的，是当年轻易放弃的真爱。Don"t easily give up a person you miss every day. Because such a person will not encounter a few in his life. Even if we had to suffer a lot together, the biting would be over. The bitterness of life fades with time. But time cannot wash away the pain of losing love.
What will still hurt you many years later is when you are young and easy to give up your true love.
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十三、人生就有许多这样的奇迹，看似比登天还难的事，有时轻而易举就可以做到，其中的差别就在于非凡的信念和不懈的坚持。There are many such miracles in life. Sometimes they can be easily accomplished. The difference lies in the extraordinary faith and perseverance.
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十四、想得太多了，心就疲惫了；烦得太久了，人就憔悴了；压力太大了，健康就丢了；心情太差了，笑容就没了！只要内心不乱，外界就很难改变你什么。不要艳羡他人，不要输掉自己。If you think too much, your heart will be tired; if you are tired too long, you will be haggard; if you are stressed too much, your health will be lost; if you are in a bad mood, your smile will disappear!
It"s hard for the outside world to change anything as long as there"s no chaos in your heart. Don"t envy others, don"t lose yourself.
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十五、也许，你一时半会儿无法忘记，或许，你也一时半会儿无法接受，可是ta就是离开了，不会回来了。你能做的只是淡出ta的记忆，退出ta的生活，ta那些好的坏的，终究与你再无关联了。Maybe you can"t forget it for a while, maybe you can"t accept it for a while, but TA just left and won"t come back. What you can do is fade out the memories of ta, quit the life of ta, and the good and bad of TA are not related to you anymore.
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十六、收起你的懦弱，摆出你的霸气，在你跌倒的时候没人扶你，多的是看你笑话的畜生。为了生存，就是再苦再累也要想办法熬过去！Put away your cowardice, show your domineering, when you fall, nobody helps you, mostly the animals who see your jokes. In order to survive, we have to find ways to survive even if we are tired and bitter again!
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十七、“孤独”。 这两个字拆开看，有小孩，有水果，有走兽，有蚊蝇，足以撑起一个盛夏傍晚的巷子口，人味十足。 夏日的傍晚，你看着空中嗡嗡飞舞的飞虫，不远处的狗摇着尾巴穿巷而过，你手中拿着吃剩下的半块西瓜，忽然觉得好像过了半辈子，又好像只过了半分钟。"Loneliness". These two words open to see, there are children, fruits, animals, mosquitoes and flies, enough to support a summer evening Lane entrance, full of human flavor.
On a summer evening, you see flying insects buzzing in the air, dogs wagging their tails across the lane not far away, and half of the remaining watermelon in your hand, suddenly feel as if it"s been half a lifetime, but also half a minute.
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十八、假如每个女孩都有守护她的人，那这个人何时出现就不重要了，因为我们始终相信有爱能克服一切艰难困苦，我们更相信有爱就能使世界更美好。If every girl has someone to guard her, it doesn"t matter when this person appears, because we always believe that love can overcome all difficulties and hardships, and we believe that love can make the world better.
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十九、女人最可悲的不是年华老去，而是在婚姻和平淡生活中的自我迷失。女人可以衰老，但一定要优雅到死，不能让婚姻将女人消磨地失去光泽。The saddest thing for a woman is not that she is old, but that she is lost in marriage and in her ordinary life. Women can grow old, but they must be graceful to death. Marriage can not make women lose luster.
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二十、 不要让别人的看法淹没了自己心底的声音，最重要的是，要有勇气跟随自己的内心与直觉。你见过他爱你的样子，所以你肯定能发现他不爱了的样子。Don"t let other people"s opinions drown out your own inner voice. The most important thing is to have the courage to follow your own heart and intuition. You"ve seen how he loves you, so you"ll surely find out what he doesn"t love.
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二十一、为了等你，我错过了等我的人。青春只有一个份额。说到底求而不得的感情不过是自己的一厢情愿，没有结果也要有勇气承担，毕竟是自己的选择，怨不得别人，只能自己选择坚强。、我去翻他的过往，并不是嫉妒，我只是难过，有种深情，他从未给过我。In order to wait for you, I missed the person waiting for me. Youth has only one share. In the final analysis, the feeling you can"t get is just your wishful thinking. If you have no result, you should have the courage to bear it. After all, it"s your choice.
You can"t complain about others, but you can choose your own strength. I went to look over his past, not jealousy, I was just sad, there is a kind of affection, he never gave me.
二十二、一个爱你、害怕失去你的男人，绝不会允许你的健康有所闪失。所以，他不允许你吃太多的垃圾食品，无论你多爱吃。在你的身体健康面前，他绝对不会马虎。因为，他希望你能有一个健康的身体，能够陪他执子之手，与子偕老。A man who loves you and fears losing you will never allow your health to slip away. So he doesn"t allow you to eat too much junk food, no matter how much you like it. In front of your health, he will never be careless. Because, he hopes you can have a healthy body, can accompany him to hold the hand of his son, and grow old together.
