问题补充：
Without question, the most stressful years for parents are when their children are between 13 and 20. With young children, control seems to be quite easy. If a child doesn’t do what he is told to do, he is just made to do it. If a child is leaving the house and doesn’t listen when the parent calls him back, the parent simply goes after the child picks him up and brings him back. But as the child grows older and bigger, parents can’t do that any more. They can’t just pick the child up and bring him back. With older children, control is best achieved when the parents do those things the children want. In this way, the things do the controlling for you. For example, parents may think it is necessary for the child to clean his own room, but the child may think it’s no use and refuses to clean his room. It is important for parents to understand how their use of control must change as their children grow older.
【小题1】Many children do what they are to do they are under the age of thirteen.
【小题2】A child sometimes to his parents when he grows older.
【小题3】If a child leaves the without permission (同意), he will be brought .
【小题4】When a child to clean his room, he may think it’s not .
【小题5】It’s important for parents to their children and their way of controlling as time goes on.told/ made; when
答案：
(答案→)told/ made; when
解析：
【小题1】从文章的句子：With young children, control seems to be quite easy. If a child doesn’t do what he is told to do, he is just made to do it. 可知答案是told/ made; when
【小题1】从文章的句子：If a child is leaving the house and doesn’t listen when the parent calls him back, 可知答案是doesn’t; listen
【小题1】从文章的句子：If a child is leaving the house and doesn’t listen when the parent calls him back, the parent simply goes after the child picks him up and brings him back.可知答案是house; back
【小题1】从文章的句子：but the child may think it’s no use and refuses to clean his room.可知答案是refuses; necessary/ useful
【小题1】从文章的句子：It is important for parents to understand how their use of control must change as their children grow older.可知答案是understand; change
